Caring for bee balm
Light. Full sun gives the best bloom and, more importantly, the airflow that keeps mildew off. It tolerates light afternoon shade, but shade plus humidity is exactly what powdery mildew wants.
Water & soil. This is a streambank native, so it likes consistent moisture and rich soil. It handles my clay well as long as it doesn't bake dry midsummer — a drought-stressed bee balm is a mildew-covered bee balm. Mulch to hold moisture.
Feeding. Undemanding. A spring topdress of compost is all mine get. Skip heavy nitrogen — soft, crowded growth is mildew bait.
Airflow & deadheading. Thin the clump in spring so stems aren't packed shoulder to shoulder. Deadhead spent whorls to push a second flush. Cut the whole plant to the ground after frost.
Containing the spread. It's a mint, so it runs. Each spring I slice off the outer third with a spade and either replant it or give it away. Left alone it forms a generous — and useful — colony.
Harvesting leaves. If you want it for tea, pick young leaves just before the plant flowers, when the oils are strongest — morning, after the dew has dried. Cutting for the kitchen doubles as a thinning pass, so it works in your favor twice. Dry the leaves in a single layer out of direct sun and they'll keep their scent for months.